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VISIT www.blackloveandmarriage.com FOR MORE VIDEOS AND ARTICLES Men listen to men about sex. What men should be doing is listening to women about what their wants and desires are. In this post we answer a question from a man who is feeling insecure because his wife just recently purchased a vibrator. We also talk about other misguided advice men get from another men about sex. The bottom line is....if you want to know how to do...then ask the person you are doing it to. They know what they like and don't like and their answers offer the quickest and clearest route to satisfaction.

THANK YOU FOR WATCHING : ) To get your RELATIONSHIP ASSESSMENT FROM US click the link: www.blackloveandmarriage.com/black-marriage-services-take-a-class/is-it-time-for-a-relationship-assessment/ To schedule a RELATIONSHIP COUNSELING / COACHING session with us CALL 202-599-0234 OR click the link FOR DETAILS: www.blackloveandmarriage.com/black-marriage-services-take-a-class/relationship-coaching-counseling/ For more VIDEOS, ARTICLES, GIVEAWAYS, RADIO INTERVIEWS, AND MORE VISIT www.blackloveandmarriage.com Today's show is of a sexually explicit nature. You've been warned! :-) Are there some things that your spouse does while in the bedroom that you simply can't stand? Are there any sexual fantasies or fetishes that your spouse has that make you feel inadequate? Well, today we want to challenge you to think about your feelings if you find yourself in this category. What we're suggesting today is that this wife does not feel unsure of her ability to sexually satisfy her mate because of his masturbation....it is how she (and many of us today) perceive the act of masturbation. If you take nothing else from today's show please meditate and marinate on this: Masturbation is a normal and healthy act. Productive orgasms literally can add years to a person's life. So, let's take the "taboo" away from the subject of masturbation and respect and enjoy it for what it is! Listen in to this video as we attempt to shed some light on the touchy topic of masturbation and help this wife who says her husband masturbates....even after they have sex.

VISIT www.blackloveandmarriage.com FOR MORE VIDEOS & ARTICLES When you are in a relationship it's extremely important that trust and respect are present. If one of these key ingredients is missing it's likely the other is absent as well. In this webisode we show you what trust is all about as we discuss an incident where my wife caught me looking at another woman's booty. Yup.......I, Ayize Ma'at, a faithful husband and devoted marriage educator find other women besides my wife attractive. However, I as a marriage educator and loving / respectful husband am intentional about managing my emotions and appetite so i'm not investing in .........everything I'm interested in. The ONLY "bank" where I make my deposits is owned and operated by my wonderful wife....Aiyana.

A considerable amount of married women nowadays are complaining about being dissatisfied sexually. Unfortunately sexual dysfunction in relationships can lead to miscommunication, injured self-esteem, broken trust, arguments and sometimes separation. Is it wrong for a woman to desire to be pleased sexually and have a serious problem if she's being turned away more than she's being turned on? If your spouse is unwilling to "make your toes curl" how do you manage to get your needs met and maintain a healthy relationship mentally, emotionally, and sexually? Listen in as we advise a young newlywed who says she and her new husband are having sex about twice a month. This new wife says she's tried seducing her husband and just straight up asking her husband to make love to her and she gets answers like: Ok, let me take a shower...which he never gets around to doing or he'll say: "You're ovulating right now...too risky" to which she responds "Well, let's use a condom" and he still thinks it's too risky....hmmm. Interesting. Leave a comment or submit a video response letting us know your thoughts P.S...excuse the name mess up in the credits. * Visit www.blackloveandmarriage.com for Give Away # 3 in our Week Of Give Away Series. You'll never guess today's Give Away! ***NOTE***All questions must be submitted through www.blackloveandmarriage.com.

Dr. Ruthie of ExploringIntimacy.com and Funwares.com answer your questions on sex and relationships. You can send your questions to AskDrRuathie@funwares.com or tweet them to @DrRuthie! In this video Dr. Ruthie answers a fan who wants to know why women enjoy anal sex and what they could possibly get out of it.

Visit www.blackloveandmarriage.com FOR VIDEOS, ARTICLES, and GIVEAWAYS In this show Ayize puts on the table some items of note that he recognized from teaching marriage education classes and coaching couples with his wife Aiyana Ma'at. Believe it or not...black men want to be vulnerable in their relationships. Black men want to be transparent. Additionally, it's imperative that you have people that support your marriage in your immediate circle. Lastly, Ayize answers the question from a young man that is being pressured by his wife to have sex with her. Surprisingly he doesn't want to have sex with his wife. He says he didn't marry her for sex. Listen in and hear how Ayize addresses this.

Program: Frontline Aired On: 24th December 2010 on Express News Host: Kamran Shahid Mohammad, himself married 14 women, and allowed his followers to marry 4 women at a time, and also to have sex with their slaves. How can this man be expected to respect women? And how can we expect the religion that he founded to respect women...??? Background: 1. In this program Kamran Shahid discusses the case of a woman whose husband divorced her. After over a year they decided to remarry. 2. As per Islamic Law, a woman cannot remarry her husband who has divorced her until she first marries another man, and has physical relations/intercourse with that other man. 3. In this woman's case when the husband asked the mulla whether there was any way around this problem, the mulla replied that he will be willing to offer his services, that is, the wife should marry him first (the mulla), and have sex with him. Then the mulla will divorce her and she can marry her previous husband again. 4. Please note that the mulla's say that this is as per the Quran. 5. So my friends, this is Islamic law for you. And muslims want to impose these sick laws all over the world. 6. Also the mulla says that if a muslim denies or refuses to follow what is written in the Quran, then he is considered a Kafir...

THANK YOU FOR WATCHING : ) To get your RELATIONSHIP ASSESSMENT FROM US click the link: www.blackloveandmarriage.com/black-marriage-services-take-a-class/is-it-time-for-a-relationship-assessment/ To schedule a RELATIONSHIP COUNSELING / COACHING session with us CALL 202-599-0234 OR click the link FOR DETAILS: www.blackloveandmarriage.com/black-marriage-services-take-a-class/relationship-coaching-counseling/ For more VIDEOS, ARTICLES, GIVEAWAYS, RADIO INTERVIEWS, AND MORE VISIT www.blackloveandmarriage.com The other day my wife,Aiyana, and I spoke at a Young Professionals event about Black Love and the Art of Communication. There was standing room only and the crowd was FLYYYY. ;-) After we spoke a gentleman came up to me and said he honestly didn't see the value in marriage and he felt like you could have the same thing in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that you can have in a married relationship. So I shared a few thoughts with him. Check out this video and get a better understanding of why being married IS different from being boyfriend/girlfriend.

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