From: Hermawan A. Riyanto
Date: 04/18/2012
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Hermawan A. Riyanto berbicara tentang Married vs Dating
Bercinta adalah kebutuhan fitrah d...
Hermawan A. Riyanto berbicara tentang Married vs Dating
Bercinta adalah kebutuhan fitrah dan utama bagi semua makhluk, tapi kita Manusia.
We are not monkeys
We are not Pigs
We are not Elephants
We are not Animals
Who are we?
We are Human
Whoever you are, whatever your gender, whatever nation you are, whatever your religion
If you can understand what I am saying, so surely that you are human.
The similarity between animal and human is, all have the same need for having sex.
Having Sex is the nature and basic needs of all,
Sex is so important such as eating and drinking for animals and human.
But we are humans, not animals!
Human has intelligence, human get along with ethic, maintain human dignity. Human lives with the law from God.
Human having sex with their partner, after the bond passed by their parents, family and religion.
marriage is the bond of love
Thus, the difference between Pigs, Monkeys and Human is
Human is having sex with their partner after they are married while animals are not
then for those who choose the path of intimacy, sex dating and free sex, rather than choosing marriage, They're not different with Pig, Monkey, Camel, Rabbit, Crocodile, and all the animals on earth.
honorable manwoman choose marriage instead of free sex.
Question:
1. We prefer marriage rather than dating free sexlive together, but married cost is expensive,
Getting married does not mean the wedding reception
Should not get married like marriages William and Kate, It's not like Duke
Getting married is the marriage ceremony as taught by God and His Messenger.
2. We prefer marriage rather than dating free sexlive together, but we were in college
When you get married then the learning will be more peaceful, and more focus into the future.
Getting married is much better, and responsible than you are dating, dating makes you feel guilty and to make parents worry that you will fall into error.
If the circumstances do not allow, You can get married, although not necessarily live in the house every day, or you can remain in the responsibility of each parent, or hire a contract with, for each fixed learning and study to complete.
But my suggestion is to follow the family planning program, to seek to have children after college, Delaying having children far better to minimize the likelihood of problems and keep your focus in building the future.
3. We prefer marriage rather than dating free sexlive together, but we have not worked and had a home
Instead of you going out, not working, plus do not have a house of sin and the moral damage is better than married and build a sense of responsibility than dating.
Getting married does not mean that hinder you to work and have a house, marriage actually makes you more vigor and focus in building the future of the family.
4. We prefer marriage rather than dating free sexlive together, but how about talking to parents
Tell your parents and family, that God and His Messenger commanded us to get married and God forbid any act of free sex approached.
Say that You love each other and want to live together in marriage with sakinah mawaddah warahmah.
5. We prefer marriage rather than dating free sexlive together, but shy, afraid of what people said later
Be ashamed to your God, be afraid to God, not to others
Be Married make you to be more honorable, and by choosing marriage, you are in the forefront of moral struggle to glorify God, while rejecting the culture of atheists and secularism in free sex.
6. We prefer marriage rather than dating free sexlive together, but we need guidance and discussion
Do not hesitate to contact us, we are ready to assist in finding the best solution for your problem.
Hermawan A. Riyanto , @hermaewan1928
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